Since she first walked into SUR in a navy blue romper, Brittany Cartwright has been a familiar presence on our TV screens. From Vanderpump Rules, which she officially joined in Season 5, to Jax & Brittany Take Kentucky and the pair’s one-season couch reaction show post-Scandoval, the constant amid the chaos that comes with reality TV has been her relationship, and eventual marriage, to VPR OG Jax Taylor. These days though, the 36-year-old is shining alone on The Valley, a VPR spinoff currently airing on Bravo, as she and a mostly new crew of 30- to 40-somethings juggle marriage, parenthood, adulting, and the still-not-so-occasional meltdown.