15 Long-Distance Sex Toys Your Partner Can Control From Anywhere

For those of us who love a wand vibrator but can’t in good conscience pack a vibrator that takes up more space than our shoes for a quick getaway, the Domi 2 doesn’t sacrifice intensity for size. Coming in at 9.2 inches in length, this toy can snuggly fit in Calpak’s clear cosmetic case and lasts up to six hours on a full charge. Time your pleasure with sound-activated vibration to your favorite playlist, control the patterns at a close-range through Bluetooth, or provide your lover with long-distance access all through the Lovenese remote app. You can even video call during your session.

Kiiro’s Feel Pocket Stroker is a see-through stroker that allows anyone with a penis to watch themselves move through its non-anatomical design. Pair it with the PowerBlow to add advanced suction technology and remote control capabilities via the FeelConnect app. The app lets you create custom blowjob patterns and sync the PowerBlow with adult content through FeelMe AI, offering a lifelike experience for solo play.

While transporting this hefty piece of sex furniture on a trip is not recommended, it’s holding firm on the leaderboard with its six vibrating patterns, 360 degrees swivel rotation, and up to 6500 RPM of vibrations—all entirely controllable with corded remote or smartphone app functionality. The Cowgirl has its own app that allows the user to customize vibration, rotation, and pulsation patterns—even with the ability to save your favorite pleasure arrangements. It’s also connected to the FeelConnect app that allows for long-distance control with remote access, video chatting, and also the ability to increase the power and intensity with sound. Moaning, spanking, or even positioning your device near music will change the pulsations. This is an entirely mountable machine with a wide variety of attachments, grinding pad, and a slip resistant silicone base. Yes, it’s primarily a stay at home toy for lovers to handle the controls while they are away. But even so, the pleasure options and luxury of this product might just have travelers checking it into their Away Large Flex suitcase for extended stays (it does fit).

For the angels that love to track their steps, now: orgasm tracking. This C-shaped pleasure toy is a remote-controlled, app-enabled device, and is uniquely crafted for discretion and pleasure-tracking. One end is an external piece for clitoral stimulation, while the other inserted piece is G-spot targeting. The external piece doubles as an antenna for app and remote controlling. There are preprogrammed pulse patterns available in the device. Plus the signature functionality of OhMiBod products: an Oh!Dometer re: tracking orgasms. We track periods, calories, flight price drops, water intake…might as well round things out.

I swear, if there’s a way to feel pleasure, Big Sex Tech will find it. This product is an optional hands-free massager designed for those with penises. Simply lay back and let the soft silicone curve around you, vibrating and moving back and forth for your satisfaction. The remote app enables a partner to control the patterns and settings, adding an interactive element. Using the VibeMate app—an AI-powered companion for exploring adult content and sexual wellness videos—the Gush 2 can sync seamlessly with their entire erotic video collection. There’s even a feature to pair the toy with games via the Lovense Remote app, though I can’t imagine how much focus it would take to play a game and enjoy solo play at the same time.

I’m kind of obsessed with this squat, thick massager and its easy-to-travel-with size. Despite its compact size, it delivers powerful vibrations through eight settings via its silicone bulb. The product is compatible with the Zalo Remote Pro app, allowing you or your partner to control it right from a touch screen. Plus, this wand features a heating function, ensuring it’s always at the perfect temperature when in use.

This toy kind of looks like a Waterpik at first glance thanks to its a tapered end and, hey, you could probably pull it off as one if a security officer checks your luggage. But this design is not for teeth; rather, it’s a double-ended vibrator that is ideal for G-spot stimulation and external use. While it serves multiple functions, it is best not to use it for anal play since it lacks a flared base. The tapered end delivers up to 12,000 vibrations per minute. This laser focus on external erogenous zones with such enormous power is too good to ignore. The thicker, curved end offers up to 5,000 vibrations per minute, intended for longer, more leisurely sessions. By making video calls or the sound-activated feature on the Lovense Remote app, users have the ability to control Lovense products remotely. So no, it won’t floss your teeth, but it can take care of pretty much everything else you want it to.

Even though it just debuted at the 2025 CES expo, this haptic relay controller plug-in is worth mentioning. If you want to add an X-rated twist to your gaming with a partner who has a Motorbunny product—like straddle-style sex machines or any compatible connected vibrator—you plug the Fluffer into any USB-C controller (such as a PlayStation 5). The plug-in instantly relays haptic and accelerometer information to the Motorbunny, making gaming fun for everyone.

The curvature of the Tiani Harmony is designed for all kinds of play: solo, partnered, partnered at a distance, and in water! When worn, the internal piece is intended to press on the G-spot while the external stimulator can emit 10 powerful vibration settings across the outer genitalia—wear by yourself for some hands-free pleasure or invite a partner to experience the sensation themselves during penetration. With its sealed design for use in the bath, this could offer a deeply erotic and connected experience—even with your partner controlling it from miles away. Connect Tiani to the Lelo app to experience extra vibration patterns and direct pleasure through the toy’s dual motors while at a distance. The two-hour battery life is paragon for couples raring for quality time when missing each other in separate locations with app access.

This L-shaped prostate massager is such an inconspicuous wishbone that even if it did fall from your carry-on, no one would clock it for its intended use. This is a dual action sex toy with vibration transmitting onto the P-Spot through the bulb and also the perineum via the tapered external lip. Consider this a dual-action “rabbit-style” anal toy designed to deliver paired vibrations to both the prostate and perineum—but a butt is a butt is a butt so anyone with one can gain access to the Vector+ powerful pleasure. And with the We-Vibe app, you or your partner can control the vibration settings from different continents. Don’t forget the handheld remote, which can activate the two rumbly motors from up to 10 feet away. A perk: The We-Vibe products at full power are still quieter than a hushed conversation in a library. Consider this your opportunity to wear it to the hotel bar when no one is around.

The name accuracy here is unparalleled as you will legit melt into your hotel room bed while your partner makes you climax from a different state (hot). At first glance, the Melt looks like a beefed up fountain pen that must join you in your carry on bag for that weekend getaway. But on further inspection, this product goes beyond the complexities of an easy-peasy, travel vibrator. Pleasure Air technology is used to create pulsating waves and suction without ever touching your external bits. Packed with 12 intensity levels, your partner can waver between them with access to the We-Vibe app. So sit back and fade into bliss wherever you have an internet connection.

For those into nipple play and/or looking to explore light BDSM, the Gemini is a hand-free dual vibrator that clamps onto each nipple for solo, partnered, or long-distance use. With the ability to control pinch strength and vibration intensity, these clamps offer unlimited styles—including wearing under your clothes for public arousal or exploring power dynamics by activating the vibrations on your partner as a signal for an erotic act! Edging yourself or having a partner gradually increase the stimulation of the clamps can be a thrilling way to reach the point of no return together—or at least until one of you experiences nipple-gasm or can’t hold back and needs to finish the job. Big Bonus: They look like wired earbuds so no one at TSA will give you a raised eyebrow.

Okay. We don’t condone public sexy time in the presence of others who aren’t consenting to the play. But the Hush 2 Slim and its tapered neck and silky silicone material is designed for extended wear, making that late night and clandestine rendezvous with your Italian lover during your short stay in Capri much more thrilling. They can control the resounding pleasure of the 4 inch tall bulb via a remote control while you sip your wine. When you have to take the ferry back to the mainland, the app will still allow access across the gulf. Sync it to music or your favorite pleasure patterns when you’re solo!

The Diamo is a versatile and stretchable ring designed to maintain harder, bigger, and longer-lasting erections. The powerful motor inside the curved lip allows for the ring to be worn in four different ways for the wearer’s pleasure by pressing on the perineum or when between you and a partner—they can feel it as well! The Lovense app allows for the ring to sync with preferred patterns, your favorite song, or controlled by a distant partner. And because the Diamo exists on the quieter side (the highest sound level: 46 dB) this ring can be worn out—monitor your own sounds when on.